I've been thinking a lot lately about cardinal rules we all hold near and dear to our hearts - as a family and as an individual.
I should probably back up and explain what I call cardinal rules and at least a partial explanation of why I've been thinking about them.
Example of a cardinal rule: For many people, being on a time is a cardinal rule. You're never late - the end. To be late, especially on a regular basis, is the most rude thing you could ever do to this person; they can't fathom a good enough reason to be chronically tardy and are horrified and profusely apologetic when something happens to make them late.
Other areas for cardinal rules - cleanliness, germs, tact, honesty, church callings and attendance, etc.
I was talking with my mom about someone who bothers her sometimes with her/his seeming lack of consideration, among other things. I brought up the fact that since I'd grown up with her, I knew all of her cardinal rules, and unless I wanted to be in trouble, I avoided breaking them like the plague.
Other people who have not grown up with me, yet are trying to join the family, don't have the luxury of knowing these rules offhand, and must learn them. Sometimes they learn them by breaking them and facing consequences for rules they didn't know existed.
We talked about how cardinal rules are good things to follow - but sometimes aren't the most important things in life. Almost everyone has a different set of them - at least some of them are towards their good.
Maybe we all need to take a look at what are cardinal rules for our lives - what we live and die by - and whether they're really important.
Heck, I know I am.